Do you have roommates and dream about finally living by yourself? Or maybe you currently live by yourself and miss the comfort of having roommates? It’s hard to be perfectly happy with a current living arrangement. It’s easy to think that things would be better if only something were different. The reality is that we typically don’t have the luxury to change our living arrangements whenever we want. That’s why it’s important to take a step back and learn to find joy in whatever arrangement you currently find yourself in.
If you’re sharing your space with roommates or a loved one, then there are several things that you should be doing to make your situation better. Taking breaks, whether it be a long weekend getaway or just spending the night somewhere else, can be an extremely healthy way to get away from your roommate for a little while. It’s amazing how much a little space can rejuvenate a friendship! You should also make sure that your communication is open and clear so that you avoid any unnecessary drama. Living with a friend can be tough because it’s easy to forget that you actually like doing fun activities together. Take some time to actually go out and remind yourself of why you’re friends. Plus, if you want to put a smile on your face, just think about how much money you’re saving by living with someone. There, feeling better?
On the other hand, living by yourself can also lead to a fair share of problems. When you’re only accountable to yourself it’s easy to let certain things slide. You can do the dishes tomorrow or not really worry about putting your clothes in the hamper. Don’t let yourself get to that point! Make sure to stay active and keep your home clean. Living alone can also make you a bit of a hermit. Try to give yourself reasons to get out of the house every now and then, even if it’s just going on a walk around the neighborhood. Also, invite friends over to your house! Now you have a reason to keep it clean and it will bring some much-needed life to the space. And, most importantly, take advantage of the activities you can only do when alone like reading quietly in the living room or taking up the entire bed!
It’s important to take a step back and realize that things are probably better than they seem. Learn to love your living arrangement and you’ll be much happier.
Read the full article here: The Grass Isn’t Always Greener: Ways to Find Joy in Your Living Arrangement